In life most of our days turn out in the positive so why is it we fear it not going well??
We as humans are very good at assessing and avoiding threats.
We step away from the edge of a cliff, we avoid getting caught on fire, we're good at assessing when someone is dangerous.
If we weren't we would probably be dead.
We're good at avoiding embarrassing situations and risky endeavors that we could fail at, as that could cost us the resources we need to survive.
People who live their lives with more sensitivity to the risk/reword lens do tend to live more secure lives. They lose less because they risk less.
If we live in such a way to avoid all risk it has a tendency to come off as cynicism. When someone talks about a goal or a dream a cynic might roll their eyes without even thinking about it.
It's more likely they are afraid to risk and that fear comes off as cynicism.
It's true not every opportunity we try will be successful, but the more optimistic you are the more you enjoy the experience of trying.
The more optimistic you are the more you are willing to try. The more you try the more often you experience success.
When you meet a successful person you have also met someone who has failed more than most. When you meet an unsuccessful person you have met someone who quit trying after experiencing failure.
I know it sounds counterintuitive, but successful people have failed more often than unsuccessful people. They didn't focus on the failure, but got back up and tried again.
“A value-driven professional knows that relentless optimism gives them a higher percentage chance of experiencing more success in work and life” – Donald Miller – Business Made Simple
I have often been accused of being optimistic inspite of the obvious. I've experienced plenty of failure in my life, but although it has bothered me it's never gotten me so down I couldn't see the next opportunity to try again.
One of the things that has helped me and so many others is being part of an entrepreneur community. If being around optimistic people helps you to see the next opportunity and how you might do it differently so you will succeed next time.
I invite you check out The Young Entrepreneur Project, and link arms with Team on Fire!! No one is left behind and entrepreneurs are rising up and making an impact in the world.
To Your Success,